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After some time, maintaining multiple blogs became overwhelming. Publish this article here. Copy it and paste it on another. Publish it there, and there, and there. Write something different for this blog. Make each content unique. I was doing a lot of repetitive stuff and my creative energy was being used unwisely. Soon enough, it caught up with me. My multiple blogs took up too much of my time, time better spent doing other things I wanted to do as well. Alas! I had no choice but give up some of them.
The two situations, the decade-long procrastination and the refusal to let go of my blogs, were manifestations of fear – the fear of control. But it has two sides. One was the fear of TAKING control and the other was the fear of LOSING control.
How many times in our lives did we hesitate in asking someone something because we were shy?
How many times did we keep our mouth shut and refused to express ourselves because we were afraid?
How many times did we waste the opportunity of turning someone into a romantic interest because we feared rejection?